I often have trouble doing things that feel impractical. If it doesn’t help get me closer to a goal, or if I can’t easily see alignment with something I’m working towards I can often dismiss it. This trip to France has felt a bit that way.
The opportunity came about and all of the details easily fell into place except my resistance to it. Friends invited us to tag along since they would have free housing for a work trip and could host us. Flights were cheap. The problem in my mind was that I had already taken “so much vacation” this year and was “behind”. This trip would certainly set me back from my work and personal goals (none of which involve French language, culture, or eating delicious pastries, cheese, etc. multiple times a day…. Or do they??).
It turns out there’s something about allowing myself space, time, and fun that my subconscious was seeking in this trip. And now that I’m aware of this desire and have left behind my routines from home, I’ve started to feel more connected to my thoughts and see the opportunity this trip presents for what I’m trying to create in my life. Writing and creating has eluded me for months, but somehow after just claiming an hour a day I’m writing freely and consistently here. A consistent writing practice for myself and my coaching practice is one of my biggest goals for this year. And I’m doing this while also taking in this new and wonderful place. There’s enough space for both.
So, here I am encouraging you to embrace what might not feel practical, what might feel indulgent, or what might not feel like the linear path. Discomfort (in contrast to stress) is often a sign you’re on the right path. The heart is smarter than the mind.
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